How to Gift Your NYC Boudoir Photos (and to Whom)
As a boudoir photographer, I’ve seen so many women gift their photos in special and meaningful ways. Some do it to surprise their partner, others do it for themselves, and some even give them as keepsakes to remind them of how far they’ve come. If you're thinking about doing a boudoir session or already have, let me walk you through how to gift your photos—and to whom.
1. The Classic Gift: For Your Partner
One of the most popular reasons people come to me for a boudoir shoot is to surprise their partner. Maybe it’s for an anniversary, a birthday, a wedding gift, or even Valentine’s Day. I call this the “classic boudoir gift.”
Imagine this: Your partner opens a beautiful photo book or box with prints of you, looking stunning, strong, and totally yourself. Their eyes widen, their jaw drops, and they probably whisper something like, “Wow.”
You don’t have to be a model. You just have to be you. That’s the beauty of it. When gifting to a partner, some clients choose albums, while others go for a custom photo box or even a framed image for the bedroom (if you both like that idea!).
If you're doing it as a surprise, I always say: keep it personal. Add a little note or quote that means something to both of you. It turns a photo into a full experience.
2. A Gift to Yourself
Yes—you read that right. You can give your boudoir photos to yourself. Why? Because you deserve it.
I’ve had so many women come into the studio after big life changes: a breakup, a new job, a birthday, a health journey. They come in saying, “I just want to do this for me.” And when they see their final photos, they cry. Not because they’re sad—but because they see themselves in a new, beautiful way.
I love helping women create albums just for their own eyes. Some hang prints in their closet or tuck a photo in their journal. It’s a reminder: I am powerful. I am worthy. I am beautiful.
If you're gifting to yourself, I suggest something that will last. An album, a private online gallery, or a custom box filled with your favorite shots—things you can come back to whenever you need a boost.
3. Brides and Brides-to-Be
This one is big in New York! So many brides come to me asking for a boudoir session before their wedding. It’s a fun, flirty gift to give their soon-to-be husband or wife.
One of my brides gave her album to her fiancé on the morning of their wedding. He opened it while getting ready with his groomsmen and was speechless. Another bride placed a note on the cover that said, “See you at the altar, but first… enjoy these.”
If you’re a bride thinking about this, make sure to schedule your shoot a few weeks before the wedding. That gives us time to edit the photos and make a beautiful gift. Trust me—it’s a gift your partner will never forget.
4. Moms, Sisters, and Best Friends? Maybe!
Okay, this one is different, but hear me out. Some clients come in saying, “I want to do this to celebrate my body, but I also want to share it with someone who’s supported me.”
I had a client who beat cancer. She came in for a boudoir shoot and made a special print to give her mom—just one image of her smiling, in a soft robe, looking healthy and strong. Her mom said, “This is how I always see you.”
You don’t have to gift revealing or intimate photos to people like family or friends. You can choose softer shots—portraits that capture your joy, confidence, and strength. These can be a beautiful way to say thank you to someone who helped you become the person you are today.
5. How to Present the Gift
Now that you know who to gift your photos to, let’s talk about how.
Here are some of my favorite ways to present boudoir photos:
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Luxury photo album: Thick pages, elegant design, and easy to wrap or hide until the big reveal.
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Custom photo box: Filled with individual prints tied with ribbon or lace. You can even add perfume or a little handwritten note.
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Digital gallery: A private online link your partner can open on a special day. I recommend this for long-distance couples.
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Framed prints: Choose a tasteful photo and put it in a frame—just make sure you both feel comfortable with it being displayed.
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“Countdown” book: This is fun for weddings or special events—each page is a different photo with a little note counting down the days.
No matter how you present your photos, the most important thing is that it comes from the heart.
6. A Quick Note About Privacy
Boudoir is private and personal. Before you gift your photos, ask yourself: “Will this person respect and cherish them?” Only give your images to someone you trust.
In my studio, I always offer private galleries and client-only access. You have total control over what’s shared, printed, or saved. Remember, this is your gift, and you get to decide who receives it.
7. Final Thoughts
Boudoir photography isn’t just about looking sexy. It’s about celebrating your story, your journey, and your confidence. Whether you’re giving your photos to a partner, a friend, your mom, or yourself, you’re sharing something powerful.
As someone who has watched hundreds of women transform in front of the camera, I can tell you—this kind of gift is more than just pictures. It’s a memory, a message, and a piece of your heart.
So go ahead, wrap it up, write a little note, and smile. You’ve just given a gift that will be remembered forever.
Contact us:
Boudoir Photography by Your Hollywood Portrait
247 Water St, Brooklyn, NY 11201, United States
646-209-8198
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